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Hello everyone, its been a while... I was enjoying my vacation with my kiddos but there is so much going on with my baby school situation. I received an anonymous tip by a former employee and the things that principal has under the rug can cause a few people  there job, lost pensions and possible jail time... Its no wonder she called ACS (Administration for Children's Services) on me for making complaints and reports. Its terrible when you have this many people that have so much dirt on you and you lost the control you once had. This means that I have to call my contacts so this can be investigated. I won't clarify what it is that I know but it is BIG! For a woman that claims to love the students she has clearly shown the opposite. Shaming other parents and falsely accusing loving parents of negligence. Shame on you and all your minions, you have taken advantage of those poor parents that needed guidance and support. Pushing countless reports under the rug. 

What A Shame You Became Such A Fragile Broken Thing.

 ~ Unknown~

Honesty

Lets talk about honesty... What does it mean to you? Honesty to me is as important as life... Why? you may ask, because it can build a solid relationship and destroy it in seconds. Without relationships who do we become? People where made to have relationships, thats how God created us. Yet so many of them have fallen apart because one person or the other could not be honest. Honesty is the foundation on which we all wish to have built our relationships but are never willing to give it back completely. I know of a married woman who is secretly attracted to younger men. She often tries to seduce them and I know of a few men that love their wives and children but can't help themselves so they stare at the younger females as they pass by and engage them in small talk to see how far things can go. How about the men and woman that help themselves to the bars late night and into someone else bed until dawn... It makes you wonder, doesn't it. Which one are you? Maybe you can't answer that at the moment. Maybe you're none of those people. Are you honest with others? Have you never sinned? Don't be so fast to reply. It might be a lie! Maybe you don't lie to people but you steal from your job? Maybe you haven't been caught but last I check money laundering is a crime. Maybe you haven't been caught forging the books or making profit out of things that were meant to be free. Maybe you you shoplift, steal cars or do other more sinful acts towards others that are helpless like molestation or rape, and you haven't got caught, Yet! Its a small world we live in and with a computer and the proper intel you can find out anything!!! Sometimes the truth falls right on your lap. The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him your friend. ~ Abraham Lincoln~

Honesty is the highest form of intimacy. ~unknown~

The truth doesn't cost you anything but a lie can cost you everything.

The truth is like a lion, let it loose and it will defend itself.

~St. Augustine~

Gossip kills...

I've been a busy mama, but I would like to post a quick something for whomever it may apply to...

A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid anyone who talks too much.
Proverbs 20:19 NIV

keep your tongue from evil and your lips from telling lies.
Psalm 34:13 NIV

A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy person keeps a secret.
Proverbs 11:13 NIV

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Ephesians 4:29 NIV

Moral of the short but sweet lesson... Gossip kills, so mind your tongues... you should never worry about other peoples affairs when your skeletons are being brought to the light... #IllLetThatOneSitHere

Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people. ~Eleanor Roosevelt~

Just a lil' encouragement

Yesterday was a very important day for my family. I want to tell you all about it but first... I have to stress how important its is for children to see the goodness at home and in others like school, daycare,summer camp, church etc. Children absorb, reflect and have never been good at doing as they were told but have always been good at doing what they've seen. A not so perfect example was the dreadful situation that my son has not forgotten but had to face, he talks about it still, (especially when he thinks he's on his way to PS.25). After witnessing the bullying of his teacher and hearing all those terrible words used by the district representative, Julius became aggressive, angry and afraid. His mental health was at risk and that was my reason for pulling him out of that terrible environment. My children's mental health is too important to allow individuals to corrupt them. You see, when my children become adults the world would have to deal with them and I much rather the world dealing with kindhearted and compassionate people. It has been a challenging couple weeks for Julius and I. I have spent a lot of time having to correct what he was exposed to at school and teaching him why that behavior is unacceptable. He has had to learn these life lessons before time but he has definitely learned a few new habits that will last his lifetime.

 Now for yesterdays importance, while at church Julius did his usual, he moved from seat to floor , removing his shoes and putting them back on. He walked around in the back and sat down with me. I had to quite him down a few times, too. All that time I felt like he wasn't paying attention and he wasn't listening to the Pastors message. Oh boy, I was so wrong! The message was about seeking Christ, going to him with all your needs and the power the name of JESUS has. It was about taking time out of our "busy lives" to build a relationship with Christ.  My pastor even made a valid point, he suggested that we erase some things from our schedules and make the time to spend with God. He also said that we read our bibles for ten minutes a day, so we can make a habit out of reading the word. Once the Pastor was done with his message my home fellowship leader made an alter call, he said "If anyone wants to repent, turn away from your sins and receive Jesus Christ in your hearts, raise your hand and I would see you after service." Julius was all over the place swarming around and he raised his hand. I said to him "stay still and why you raised your hand?" He turned to me and said " Mommy everyone in here has Jesus in their hearts and I don't but I want Jesus in my heart too" I was so surprised that all this time he was in fact paying attention and all our nightly prayers were not in vain. Julius actually understood all that I have been teaching him about God. He received Jesus Christ as his Lord and savior. He is gonna be a mighty man of God( both of my sons are) and my daughter will be a virtuous woman in Christ.

Moral of the story: Our children are definitely paying attention but are we? Children don't learn like us adults, they can multitask very well and when we least expect it, they will surprise you. The surprise will be total up to us, because we are the ones responsible for our behavior and the behavior we put out into the world. We have to teach our children and the children around us to have morals and respect for others. Love is what will heal this world. If you don't know how to show others respect, then you should ask the people that show the most respect to others, they'll give you the right advice and may even teach you how it is done. Lastly, give God his time. It is important to make quality time for God and family.

Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about every thing. Tell God what you need  and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience Gods peace, which exceeds anything we can understand, His peace will guard your heart and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7) ~The Bible~

Above all Love each other deeply because love covers over a multitude of sins (1Peter 4:8) ~The Bible~

Something Different...

  I'm sure you've all heard the expression "Negative people bring negative energy." I believe that saying is absolutely true.  If you're a sour puss with the face of a toad, that explains your negativity, Lol. I'm just kidding! All jokes aside, its hard to live a life full of peace and happiness because life can be difficult. As a child you cant wait to be a teen, so you can't experience life with your peers. As a teen you want to be an adult, so you can move out and be on your own. Never realizing how hard life truly is. Some marry young and others marry multiple times because they can't seem to get it right. Others are just too meek and frail, so life takes hold of them and they end up with so many strongholds and feel like prisoners. While others are too busy existing and trying to make it day by day, struggling with their relationships, children and countless other issues. Some hide all of their pains and sorrows, so grow bitter, jealous and hateful. Very few are truly living and doing the things they love and have their affairs in order. 

  I like to think of myself as a person that once was just existing but God, "because of his great love for us (me), God who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions- it is by grace that we have been saved." (Ephesians 2-4:5) So I ask you all to ask yourself and loved ones, Are you existing or are you just living?  Life is too short to waste on bitterness and hate. Some people have so much hate in their lives and thats all they know so they do everything in their power to change who they were born to be. God makes no mistakes and I'm sure you've heard the saying "He has a plan", yes that is true but I like to think about God a little differently. He knew me before I knew myself and he knows my heart so he's my own super hero.  No weapons formed against me shall prosper and The Bible says "The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds."(2 Corinthians 10-4).  We were made for more than an ordinary life; Its time for us to do more than just survive; We were made to Thrive.


"If you declare with your mouth, "Jesus is lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead , you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved." ( Romans 10- 9:10) ~ The Bible~

Dealing With Stupidity

I had another beautiful day. Happy kids equals happy wife and you know what they say happy wife equals happy life. However I got a call from a nobody today. PS25 is the shittiest school ever! The Faculty especially the ones that work well with the idiot of a principal can't seem to hear. I told these people that my son was not safe in that school with those trolls M.L. (District Representative) and G.V. (Counselor), not to mention the other trolls (minions). Yet they have the nerve to call me and ask  me if my son was going to attend the summer program.

 LET ME MAKE IT CLEAR FOR YOU IDIOTS AT PS. 25,  NO!!!!!!!  

One thing I learned is that I shouldn't try to explain yourself to stupid people. I'm not the Jackass Whisperer.

Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you to their level and beat you with experience. ~Mark Twain~

Without Stupid People We Would Have No One To Laugh At... Take The Time And Thank A Stupid Person For Their Contribution. (YOU KNOW WHO YOU ALL ARE).

It is extremely frustrating dealing with these type of people!!!  

Truth

Good evening,

Today was such a relaxing day. Thank God... Lord knows I needed to take a day to nothing. While my husband worked, the kids and I did nothing but lounge around the house. I needed this day because of all the stress the incidents with my son have caused my son and I, its unbelievable and heartbreaking. I still can't understand how could there be so much evil in this world. I know that my Savior lives because my son will be okay. I'm not going to give up, no matter what people have to say. Only the darkness fears the light and I know only those involved would like me to be quiet but thats not gonna happen, despite what they (principal & her minions) come up with. I will stand firm because my son matters. This world has so much evil and those that carry the light have been meek and humble for too long. Its time that people gather together for the same cause and stop fearing these chicks. Divided we fall but united we stand. This goes for every situation life throws your way. Wake up people life is too short to be afraid of miserable, fake and heartless people. These chicks have gotten so far because they are united but they won't stay united for long. An insecure chick seeks constant reassurance that she is beautiful, valued and loved. They are looking for validation, that they are acceptable as they are weak. The truth hurts... doesn't it?


"We are only as strong as we are united, as weak as we are divided"  ~J.K. Rowling~